Disclaimer: this is not a slur on those that actually do the things mentioned in my post, but just a word of advice to those that are made to feel bad about not doing them.
By the way, these are all things that I have witnessed while adulting.
Men, sometimes the ladies you date will think that they were born royal and will, occasionally, act spoilt.
Nothing too fancy - things like brushing hair, holding a purse, putting sugar in a mug of coffee.
Men: refusal to do such things does not make you less of a man or any worse a boyfriend than you already may or may not have proven to be.
Women: unless you're an upper limb amputee, fix your own damn coffee.
This was originally posted on 21 March, 2015.